Hey my bestie, oh, how I’ve missed you so so much. I apologize for keeping you in the dark for 4 whole weeks. Gosh! That feels like such a long time. A lot has happened and we do have so much catching up to do. Happy Ramadan and Happy New Month my darling.

First up, I have the gist of a 40-year-old baddie whose pastor boyfriend has asked that she give up her baddie life. Crazy life choices right? If you are looking to relocate soon, you’re right on time because we are going to be taking a look at the benefits of “Japaing” for work or study.

I also have a few tips for you to make the most of Ramadan.

Let's dive right in!

My Pastor Boyfriend Wants Me To Give Up My Baddie Life…

This life is quite simple but na we dey make am hard. The first role is to know what you want and everything else becomes easy.

Hey, my loves, my only besties, how are you all doing on this wonderful day? Before I digress a little too much, our subject of the day is in a dilemma. She’s caught between giving up her baddie life and becoming a pastor’s wife.

10 Ways to Make the Most of Ramadan

Ramadan is a beautiful time for spiritual growth, connection, and community. But between fasting, school, and staying connected, the days can feel long.  Here are 10 ideas to make the most of this special month, without focusing on making time “fly”

1. Level Up Your Suhoor Squad: Pre-dawn meals are more fun with friends! Organize a Suhoor rotation at each other’s houses or the mosque. 

2. Ramadan Reads & Reviews:  Pick a Quran tafsir (interpretation) or Islamic book to read with friends. Discuss a chapter each night after Taraweeh's prayers. 

3. Charity Challenge: Set a daily or weekly goal to donate to a different cause. It can be anything from a local mosque to an environmental project. 

4. Skill Break: Learn a new Islamic calligraphy style, memorize a short Surah, or practice reciting duaas (supplications) with friends. 

Benefits Of “Japaing” To A New Country For Work Or Study

Moving to a new country or Japa as we like to call it can breed mixed emotions due to the uncertainties that lie ahead. One minute you’re ecstatic, the next tears are welling up in your eyes and you’re wondering if you’ve made the right decision.

The truth is, these feelings won’t go away just by wishing it would. However, processing the many opportunities and benefits embedded in moving to a new country, either for work or study is one way to shake off those emotions and get all the way excited.

In this article, we will be focusing on the benefits of migrating to a new country for work or study.

1. Gaining International Professional Experience

The benefits of gaining international professional experience cannot be over-emphasized. The power of a well-developed professional network can elevate your career more than you could imagine. Some job openings are not always publicly disclosed but seats get occupied through referrals and networking.

So when you move to that new country, make sure you make friends with your colleagues, as well as their friends. That way, you get to build a substantial professional network.

2. New Life

One of the benefits of moving to a new country is that you get to start afresh. You learn, unlearn, and relearn the new space. You gain new skills, learn new cultures, understand new languages and a new way of life.

This could be an opportunity for you to pick up a new hubby. Learn a new skill or just do something you have always wanted to do in a different country than your home country.

3. Meeting New People

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to have friends from different cultures and parts of the world? As an expat, you have the chance to build relationships and friendships that will make your new life easier to navigate.

You might even find people like you who are also new and trying to learn the new space. Never underestimate the power of building global relationships in a country.

Hilarious White Lies We All Tell

Ah, the almighty white lie! We Nigerians practically have a PhD in them. From saving our auntie’s feelings to escaping juju gossip, these little fibs keep the peace and the laugh track rolling. Let’s take a look at some classic whoppers we’ve all told at some point:

“I’m fine” 

This national anthem applies to everything from heartbreak to that rogue pepper that snuck past your defenses. You could be nursing a wound that would make Rambo cry, but one look from your mama and it’s “I’m fine o, just a small headache.”

“This outfit looks great on you” 

Bless your heart, Ngozi, but that blouse makes you look like a discount parrot. But would you ever say that out loud? Never! “Ah ah, this agbada dey fit you well well,” you say with a straight face, hoping she doesn’t catch you picturing Big Bird in your head. 

“Oga [Boss], I dey come!” 

This is the holy grail of white lies. You’re chilling at Ikeja Computer Village two hours after work starts, but your boss calls. Panic? Nah. “Oga, I dey come already,” you say, channeling your inner Usain Bolt as you navigate through Oshodi traffic. 

Movie Recommendation

1. Movie lovers, it’s the weekend and that means time with friends and family. Thinking of movies to watch, here’s a list. Catch them on Netflix.

• Afamefuna

• The Wages of Fear

• A Taste of Sin

• Glass

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